How to End the Internal Struggle?

Why do we struggle? What causes the pain and the turmoil, the discomfort and dissatisfaction? I have pondered this question a lot, and I have come up with a way to look at it that simplifies things.

Ask yourself these two questions, and really dig deep.

1) What do I want more of in life?

2) What do I want less of in my life?

Perhaps you want more: joy, satisfaction, confidence, passion, clarity, ease, and balance. What if you could actually have that? What would that mean for you? How would that feel? What’s holding you back from achieving this? For some, it’s that they don’t actually believe they deserve it. And if this is you, I’m going to stop you right here and now - YOU DO DESERVE IT!

You deserve to feel joy, to feel peace, to feel loved and lovable, to be successful, to feel passion, to feel worthy and embrace all that you are and all that life has to offer. You actually owe it, not only to yourself, but to the rest of the world, to be and feel all of those things. To find out what truly lights you up, what gets you excited, and what you are really good at. And DO THAT! This is how you will be the most successful, this is where you find true purpose, where you will find true joy, and this is where you will positively influence others around you.

It can be difficult to turn off the external influencers in your life, what others (society, family, friends, colleagues or other outside influences) tell you who you are or what you should be and how you should feel. And when the external influences in your life are the most prominent, this is when you struggle. When external pressures and beliefs imposed have taken hold and overpower your own internal beliefs, this is when you struggle.

So, take some time if you can, and look at the answers to the two questions above. And then ask yourself WHY you don’t have what you want more of in your life. And then perhaps HOW you can get more of what you want in your life. And HOW you can remove some of the things that you want less of in your life.

The answers are in there, it’s a matter of removing the limiting beliefs that have influenced you over your life to find the true essence of who you are. When you are clear on this, and you have the tools to gain true confidence, you remove the struggle, and the pain. Life becomes full of ease; you find joy and passion; and direction and purpose are clear and achievable.

Now, how do you do that? With guidance, tools and support. This is where coaching comes in. I will meet you where you are, help you find clarity, and guide you to where you want to be with the support and tools you need to stop the internal struggle and achieve your goals. We all need support. Let’s chat with a free consult. Let’s get to know you.

Isn’t it time for you to stop struggling? To feel 100% comfortable in your skin, absolutely confident, passionate, purposeful, and joyful in your life? I offer support in an unconditionally loving, safe and accepting environment. To guide you back to your true essence, and step into your best self. I am here for you. Let’s talk.